Monday, February 14, 2011

Valentine Memories

The picture I keep in the living room of my husband & me is a 'portrait' taken on our second cruise.  It's an 8x10 that sits on a shelf by the fireplace.  We always referred to it as our 'prom picture'.  Tucked into the bottom corner of the frame is a florist's card that came with the roses he ordered one year when he was in South America.  The thought still holds true, "You're always in my heart, no matter where I am!"  He's still my valentine!

As often as not, he was away on this Sweetheart's day as well as birthdays and other holidays.  But he was a romantic and whether home or away, he never let me forget that I was special to him.  (I used to put a card and memento in his suitcase - not to be opened 'til the holiday.)  When he was home, we always had a favorite restaurant for dinner.  The rest of the evening was simply time spent together; sometimes watching a TV movie, sometimes playing UNO.

He always brought or sent flowers.  He wasn't big on candy because I wasn't a big candy eater and he was.  He felt that if he gave me candy, he was just setting himself up for a chocolate frenzy.  And then, sometimes he bought me chocolates for that very reason (and it didn't have to be Valentine's Day.  Excuses not mandatory for chocolate frenzies.)

I don't miss celebrating Valentine's Day.  The day is  now special for the memories it conjures up.  Happy Valentine's Day, Sweetie!  I love & miss you!!!

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